What to Text a Girl You Like?

Texting a girl is different from texting your buddies. The language and the things you choose to talk about should communicate your unique and interesting attributes.texting a girl

You know, girls love hearing sweet words, articulated in a charming way.  Do not just spit any word that comes to your mind.

Show the girl that you are innovative and thoughtful by texting relevant, creative and engaging messages.

Remember you want to make her miss your text messages, not to dread receiving them.

So, here I am going to give you a few tips about texting a girl you like.

What to text a girl you just met – 

So you just met a girl and you want her to be interested in you.  You have to come up with text messages that will make her day sour if she does not hear from you.  Think outside the box and come with some refreshing and uncommon lines.


Guy: “Hey, can you keep a secret?”

Girl: “Yes, why do you ask?”

Guy: “Please promise not to tell a soul about it”

Girl: “ok, I promise”

Guy: “I met this gorgeous and adorable girl last night.  Her name is [put the name of the girl you are chatting to].  The said thing is that I forgot to tell her that Beyoncé Knowles’s curves are no match to hers.

You can see that this conversation is fun and can go on for hours.  The first text grabs the girl’s attention by making her wonder what dark secret you could be trying to reveal to her.

Her response shows that she is interested to know what you have to say.  The trick here is to make her curious even when you want to say the obvious.

Girls love compliments, and girls do love to play as well. Do not just say you are beautiful. There could be dozens of guys who said that to her throughout the day. Text compliments that will make her remember only your texts out of the many she could be receiving every day from guys she just met.

What to text a girl who is interested in you – 

If after texting a couple of messages you are now sure that the girl is into you, you can come out of the closet.  Be open and tell the girl you are interested in her. The best thing you can do at this time is to flirt with her over texts.


“Let me cut to the chase, I like you and I know you like me too. There’s no use denying it. So what do you think should be our next step from here?”

Some guys take too much time before they tell a girl what they want from her.  If you do this, a girl may end up losing interest in you. There is time to chase after a girl, but there is also time to catch her. Watch out for that!

What text you should send to a girl when she has stopped responding to your texts – 

A girl may lose interest in a guy for countless reasons. If a girl is not responding to your text messages, do not sell yourself too cheap by begging her to respond. Send her a message that will show her that you are not desperate or lonely.


“You seem to be a busy person. Sorry for disturbing you. I’ll leave you to yourself…:-)”

Remember that you will get more dates if you stop chasing after girls. What most girls look is a guy’s Masculinity.

Masculinity is attractive to girls and it is opposite of desperation and neediness.  So, do not send any messages which show that you are desperate for her texts.

What to text a girl when she is not sure about you – 

When a girl is not sure about you, she will make countless excuses to your proposals. You do not have to be offended by this. Simply prove to the girl that you are a better company.

And you can do this by not sending further texts until you meet her physically. When you meet her, charm and build rapport with her.  And then follow your texting game.

These were a few tips what I learnt from my friend Bobby Rio and his book Magnetic Massaging. If you are very serious about ‘HER’ and texting her, then I highly recommend you to watch his video presentation and checkout these 3 wired text!

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6 Responses to What to Text a Girl You Like?

  1. Simone March 5, 2013 at 2:29 am #

    Texting has become the Cupid of the 21st Century.

    • Alex J. Steve March 12, 2013 at 5:14 pm #

      I think that you are right Simone. Texting can become next revolution in people’s dating life.

  2. Robin March 11, 2013 at 5:46 pm #

    This is useful information! I enjoyed reading this post. I think that texting is a better way to build rapport if you are a shy guy, at least you don’t have to face awkward silences while texting a girl. Also, you don’t have to maintain your body language or show faking confidence while you text her to impress her. This is just my opinion. Thanks.

  3. waps March 12, 2013 at 2:26 pm #

    Nice tips, :) Now I can try these tips. By the way continue posting. I really appreciate such articles…Thanks.

    • Alex J. Steve March 22, 2013 at 3:36 am #

      Thanks for your comment. I am glad that you liked it.

  4. surahata toury August 4, 2013 at 9:15 pm #

    Well this is the best post i have ever read. I will take note of there tips

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